Monday, November 29, 2010

November 29, 2010, 3 John

Key Verse:

So if I come, I will call attention to what he is doing, gossiping maliciously about us.

(3 John: 10)

Central Truth:

Gossip is one of Satan’s schemes to hurt relationships and wreck our churches.

KEEP YOUR MOUTH CLOSED

The book of 3 John is a short letter written by the Apostle John to a man names Gaius. Gaius was a leader in a local church and one of John’s friends. John’s letter encourages Gaius to show hospitality, continue to walk in the truth, and do what is right.

John also writes this book to deal with a very specific person and problem. His name was Diotrephes. He was a leader in this particular church and had used his position of power to gossip and gain more power. Diotrephes was a troublemaker. He also rejected the leadership of John. He refused to read the letter that John had written to the church. Then Diotrephes began to gossip and spread rumors about those who did not follow his ideas and leadership. His goal was to ruin people. He even kicked people out of the church who wanted to teach. There is no doubt that Diotrephes' gossip had spread throughout the church causing people to choose sides.

One time my Grandmother, Mama Minnie, told me something about gossip. She told me to think about a bag of feathers. Then she said, "Imagine releasing the feathers on a windy day. After that, try to imagine collecting them all." And, then she would say, "You can’t catch all those feathers. That is how it is with gossip. When you release your words, there is no taking them back, and you will never know where the wind will take them."

My Pastor, Jerry Dingmore, has also preached on gossip. He says that there are three questions we must ask ourselves when we hear gossip and are tempted to repeat the gossip. First, is it true? Second, is it beneficial? Third, is it necessary? I think most of us would stop, think, and keep our mouths shut.

We all have experienced someone talking about us. However, it is really hurtful when someone lies and adds details to our negative experience or story. I will never forget a friend calling me after I had made a serious mistake. She had heard the story (the true and not true) and instead of repeating it, she called me. She said, “Le, I know you. Yes, you messed up; ask forgiveness and move on.” She said that God will bring good from this, and you must learn from this experience. AND GOD DID!!!! I now have a walk with Jesus that I may not have had if it weren’t for my mistake. Did I have to suffer some consequences? Oh yes. But she was my friend through it all, and I love her all the more for it.

God used my friend, Katie Kemper, to help me so much! She was my angel that day and continues to help me walk in the light of Jesus. I believe Jesus wants us to be a friend or a person like that. So when you hear a negative story about someone, reach out to them. You may be the ONLY person that reaches out to them. The Bible is filled with people who really, really messed up!!! In some of those cases, God used them for mighty purposes. Ask God to open you heart and eyes to those who are hurting. He will. Ask God to help you control your tongue. It will take practice and self-control, but you can do it with His help.

Monday, November 22, 2010

November 22, 2010, 1John 2

Key Verse:
The world and its desires pass away, but the man who does the will of God lives forever.
(1 John 2: 17)
Central Truth
We are not to love the world’s ways or love the world’s goods because it will take the place of our first love, Christ. We are to keep our eyes on the prize, which is to believe in Jesus and have eternal life.

The Journey has been such a wonderful experience for Wes and me. It has really kept us reading God’s word daily which is the key to keeping our eyes on the prize. It is so awesome how the Bible is timeless and relevant to our lives in 2010. We need it each and every day, or our focus will become worldly possessions and worldly desires instead of our lord and savior. We are all guilty of making choices based on what is going on in the world around us whether it is in our actions, a purchase, or even parenting decisions. We all fall short in this department, but because Jesus paid the price for our sins past, present and future, we still have hope.
Our sin problem has been solved for good because of Jesus Christ. As we grow in him allowing him to shine light into our darkness, he sets us free. We know we love him when we allow the Word to change us and we agree with what it says. The words of God, not only allow us to love our brothers and sisters, but also allow us overcome the stumbling blocks in our path. As we mature in HIM, our life matches His words and teachings which is the clear path to the prize.
Maturity can only come after hearing these same things John is telling us in chapter 2 over and over. We are all God’s kids, and He knew we would have to hear and read it over and over to get it, to feel it, to own it. Do you get it?

Friday, November 19, 2010

November 19, 2010, 1 John 1

Key Verse: 

God is light; in him there is no darkness at all.

(1 John 1:5)
Key Concept:

Walking in the light, no need to be afraid.


I love verse 5. It makes everything clear in one sentence. In God, there is no darkness.
Substitute any negative: in God there is no fear, in God there is no sorrow, . . . no sickness, . . . no worry, . . . no death. You can go on an on.

Change it up: in Sin there is fear, sorrow, etc.

We live in a sinful world. We will experience all the negatives of life. The good news: God gives us a light; he gives us a leg up. Through Christ and the grace He gave, we do not have to live in the darkness.

Have you ever experienced total darkness? I mean absolute darkness where you cannot see your hand in front of your face? It's pretty scary when you are unsure of what is around you. With God there is never total darkness. He is always in the room to protect you.

The choice is really yours.
Do you want to ignore God's protection and sit in utter darkness? He will let you. You can also reach up for Him and eliminate all darkness. It's a simple choice.

Thursday, November 18, 2010

November 18, 2010, 2 Peter 3

Key Verse:

But do not forget this one thing, dear friends: with the Lord a day is like a thousand years, and a thousand years are like a day. The Lord is not slow in keeping His promise as some understand slowness. He is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.
(2 Peter 3:8-9)

Central Truth:

God is not on our timetable.

WAITING ON GOD

Peter wrote this letter to the Christian church not long before his death. Peter is specifically addressing the persecuted Christians of that time. I imagine God seemed slow to these believers as they faced persecution every day. The Christians were tortured, killed and mocked for their beliefs. Their hope and focus was on Christ's return. Peter is telling Christians to not sit around waiting for Christ to return, but to realize that time is short and we have important work to do. We need to be ready to meet Christ at any time, but know that he may not return for many years.

I have zero patience. I was recently telling a friend of mine that, when God was wiring me, He left out the virtue of patience. He laughed and said, “No . . . patience is not granted; it is learned. Patience is a byproduct of tribulations.” WOW. I felt like I was about an inch tall at that moment. While his intentions were not malicious, his point was made. I realized then and there how trivial my problems were and how silly I must look to those around me when I lose my patience.

I wonder if Peter looked at his fellow Christians in the same way. Peter saw the BIG picture. He understood why his fellow brothers and sisters in Christ longed for Jesus’ return. Who wouldn’t have wanted to have been rescued from the environment that Christians were living in those days? At the same time, he realized how unproductive and idle Christians were becoming by sitting around waiting on God. Peter warns Christians to be ready, but continue doing the work God has laid out for them.

Two thousand years later Christians in the USA face different trials and tribulations. With the economic tsunami we have faced and the general erosion of morals in our society, it is easy to long for Jesus’ return today much like they did then. Peter warning is just as relevant today. We should be ready to meet Christ any time, but know that He may not return for years. We have work to do. BE PATIENT. God is not on our timetable.

November. 17, 2010 ,2 Peter 2

Key Verse:
It would have been better for them not to have known the way of righteousness, than to have known it and then to turn their backs on the sacred command that was passed on to them. 22 Of them the proverbs are true: "A dog returns to its vomit" and "A sow that is washed goes back to her wallowing in the mud."
(2 Peter 2: 21)
Central Truth:
Without salvation one can only create an illusion; eventually they will live out what they really are.
THERE AIN'T NO FLEAS ON ME:
While trying to determine which verse in 2 Peter 2 to address in this devotion, I was strongly leaning toward verse 1, which talks about false prophets. I felt that would be a topic we could all identify with, as I’m sure we have all encountered or have even been influenced in some manner by false prophets. However, for some reason, I could not keep verse 22 off the brain. That verse just kept reminding me of something that my Mom told me over and over, “Son, if you lay with dogs you’re going to get fleas.” Now, I know my Mom’s message to me was: Son if you hang around with bad people, you’re going to end up doing bad things and get into trouble. I think Peter’s message is a little different, yet somewhat related. I think what Peter is saying in verse 22 is that, unless you transform inwardly, no matter how much you change your outer self, you will always revert back to your true nature. True transformation can only be accomplished through salvation. Only Christ has that transforming power.

I can look back at my life and truthfully say that I was a good person, provided well for my family, and didn’t break (many) laws. But, upon further reflection, I realize that during most of my life I was covered with fleas and wallowing in mud. I don’t remember eating my vomit. Thankfully, by the Grace of God, at the age of 58, Jesus Christ transformed me inwardly. Please don’t ever feel that it is too late to experience the glorious love of our Savior. I still have a lot to learn and improvements to make in my new Christian life, but thanks to God, I am no longer covered with fleas. Mom, I pray that you know this as you sit at the feet of Jesus.

I ‘m also intrigued with verse 21. I feel that Peter’s message here is that it is not a good idea to turn your back on God. You don’t want to make a promise to God that you can’t keep. As if God had timed this, I received an e-mail yesterday from a men’s daily devotional site called Honor Bound that I think nails this verse:
Questions from a Wayward Man
Making promises and not following up on them is wrong. When you give God a promise it would be best to not forget it or negate it in any way. He knows what you have committed to Him. That which we commit to God is no longer our own; it already belongs to Him. In the first place, all material goods God entrusts to you are only in your hands for you to oversee on His behalf. He lets you govern it to see if you will be a good manager or a thief!– David Raley serves as the Field Representative for Light for the Lost.

November 16, 2010, 2 Peter Chapter 1

Key Verse:

And I will make every effort to see that after my departure you will always be able to remember these things.

(2 Peter 1:15)

Central Truth:

If tomorrow never comes, will they know how much you loved Him? 

When your time on earth is up, how will people remember you? Will they remember your house, your cute kids, or your fast car? Will they remember the success you made, the places you traveled to, . . . or, will they remember what you stood for and what you proclaimed with every ounce of your soul? 

I love what Peter says here...."I will make every effort to see that after my departure you will always be able to remember these things." Every effort? Does God truly expect us to use every ounce of our being to make His name renown through-out our community and world? Does God really expect us to give up things to commit our lives fully to the cause of Christ? Is it REALLY our responsibility for others to remember what God did for them on the cross thousands of years ago? 

ANSWER: YEP! 

He sure does. Find that hard to swallow? Me too! But as Christ followers, our lives are to be lived in such a way that others will see, hear, and know that the Gospel is real . . . even after we are gone. Because of our love for our Saviour, we are to make every effort that others remember:

God's love for them.
Salvation that's available for them.
How to live a life that's righteous for Him.

So how do I do that? Look at what Peter said in verses 5 through 8:

"[M]ake every effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness, knowledge; 6and to knowledge, self-control; and to self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness; 7and to godliness, brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness, love. 8For if you possess these qualities in increasing measure, they will keep you from being ineffective and unproductive in your knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ."

Based on this, if tomorrow doesn't come for you, will others know how much you loved God and his children? Or, are you ineffective and unproductive?

November 15, 2010, 1 Peter 5

Key Verse:

“Be shepherds of God’s flock that is under your care, serving as overseers-not because you must, but because you are willing, as God wants you to be; not greedy for money, but eager to serve; not lording it over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock. And when the Chief Shepherd appears, you will receive the crown of glory that will never fade away."

(1Peter 5:2-4)

Central Truth:

The biblical image of a leader throughout the scriptures is not of a cowboy who drives and pushes their herds from behind, but of a shepherd who leads and shows others the way.

Cowboy Herding Cattle, or a Shepherd Herding a Flock?
Back in my college days, this sorority girl became a “cowgirl for a day” and attempted to learn how to herd cattle. I was given a frisky horse to ride; spurs adorned my new shiny boots; and a whip was placed in my hand. My only instructions were to stay behind the cattle, push the cattle and let them know that you are boss. After a very long day, I was never able to master the whole herding thing.

The one lesson I did learn that day actually came from one of the farmhands. At one point, this college chick was beyond frustrated and ready to thrown in my spurs and whip. Mr. Cowboy came trotting up with a smirk on his face and said, “You think this is hard. You should try herding sheep.”

Sheep herding is done by shepherds. A Shepherd is someone who leads his flock on foot, wears sandals and carries a hook. The word “Shepherd” is found sixty times in the Bible and refers to a person who guides and protects. Over and over again, the Bible describes how God leads and cares for us, and how we are to lead and care for others in God’s flock. In Psalm 23, God the Father is portrayed as a shepherd. In Luke 15:1-7, Jesus compares himself to a shepherd who goes after lost sheep. In John 21:15-17 Jesus tells Peter, “Feed my lambs,” and “Take care of my sheep.” God’s leaders are called shepherds in the New Testament as well as the Old: “Keep watch over yourselves and all the flock of which the Holy Spirit has made you overseers. Be shepherds of the church of God, which he bought with his own blood” (Acts 20:28).

In the biblical days, being likened to a shepherd was very heavy stuff. The shepherds in Jesus’ era carried a lot of responsibility. Their lives were hard and dangerous. They were on call to protect their flock from predators 24 hours a day. Sheep are prone to wander; without a shepherd’s constant vigilance, a flock would simply disappear. The biblical image of a leader throughout the scriptures is not of a cowboy who drives and pushes their herds from behind, but of a shepherd who leads and shows others the way.

So, are you a cowboy herding cattle, or a shepherd herding a flock?

1 Peter 5:2-4 tells us that we are to care for the flock that God has entrusted to us. This would include your family, children, a Sunday school class, or small group you are leading, or maybe God is calling you to a higher position in your church or even your workplace. As a shepherd, we are to realize that we are caring for God’s flock, not our own; we are to lead out of eagerness to serve, not out of obligation; we should be concerned with what we can give, not for what we can get in return; and most importantly, we should lead by example, not force.

Sometimes it is easier to be a “cowboy for a day,” but, as Christian leaders, we are called to jump off our high horse and throw in the spurs and whip. We are to lead, guide and protect our flock . . . “And when the Chief Shepherd appears, you will receive the crown of glory that will never fade away.”

Friday, November 12, 2010

November 12, 2010, I Peter 4

Key Verse :

Each one should use whatever gift he has received to serve others, faithfully administering God’s grace in its various forms.

(1 Peter 4:10)

Central Truth :

Our gifts and talents are not for us; they are for serving others. When we serve others, we show them the love and grace of Jesus Christ.

LIVING FOR GOD.
I love this chapter. It gets me FIRED UP about serving! It’s my passion. I believe that everyone should serve. When you serve others, something amazing happens. You become the hands and feet of Jesus Christ. You show others that they are loved and valuable. You show them that God loves them. That’s what life is all about. Love God. Love people.


This idea of living for God and others is repeated over and over in the Bible. It’s not a coincidence either. It’s so important that it bears repeating.


"If anyone speaks, he should do it as one speaking the very words of God. If anyone serves, he should do it with the strength God provides, so that in all things God may be praised through Jesus Christ. To him be the glory and the power forever and ever. Amen." (1 Peter 4:11)

"In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven." (Matthew 5:16).

When we serve others, we don’t do it for praise or reward. But we are rewarded. I have been so blessed by working in the preschool at Piedmont. Those sweet chubby babies give me all the reward I could ever ask for. And when we keep a baby in the Peewees, it gives that child’s parent a chance to serve someone else and so on. It’s a domino effect. Can you imagine how wonderful things could be if everyone paid it forward? Can you imagine how loved people would feel? Can you imagine how pleased God would be?


And serving is not just for church. We have opportunities to serve others all the time, everyday. You can help out your family, friends, neighbors, and coworkers. You can mow a sick friend’s lawn. You can carry in the mail for an elderly neighbor. You can offer to babysit a friend’s kids so she can have the night off. There are so many big and small ways to show others love. Today I challenge you to find someone to love on.

"A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. 35By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another." John 13:34-35.

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

November 10, 2010, I Peter 2

Key Verses:
For the Lord’s sake, accept all authority—the king as head of state, and the officials he has appointed. For the king has sent them to punish all who do wrong and to honor those who do right…..Show respect for everyone. Love your Christian brothers and sisters. Fear God. Show respect for the king.
(I Peter 2:13-17)
Central truth:
We are to respect authority, no matter what.
To this day I can hear my dad telling me that I did not have to like a person but I had to respect their position and know my place in dealings with people in authoritative roles. He would go on to say that I did not have to agree with what they said all of the time, but I had to, again, remember my place. My dad was always giving me pearls in dealing with other people. My dad is an awesome guy by my book and has given me so much sage advise over the years that I find myself relaying it to my kids as well. Little did I know at the time that this point had a biblical basis.
You see, God placed an entire network of people in this world into positions of authority. Not just government leaders but also leaders in our workplaces and in our families. Coming under authority and showing respect is by no means easy. None of us want to be told what to do or how to do it. I personally struggle with this, not because I am bull-headed and obstinate but because I see a lot of people in roles of authority that are acting ungodly. I find it very difficult to respect someone, regardless of their title or position, who belittles other people on a routine basis, who lacks humility, who is prideful and boastful, who acts for selfish gain or promotion, or who is just plain hypocritical.
But, I came across a Christian writer, Karen Wolff, who got me thinking on this issue. She said that the bottom line is that God expects us to respect Him and His choices. He expects that we will respect the people He has placed in authority over us. She too, like Dad, says that this doesn’t mean that we have to agree with every one of their decisions, but it does mean that we still need to show respect for the position, and by extension, the person who is in the position.
There are several verses in the Bible that support this, but I think it is best stated in Romans 13:1-3 which states: “Everyone must submit to governing authorities. For all authority comes from God and those in positions of authority have been placed there by God. So anyone who rebels against authority is rebelling against what God has instituted, and they will be punished. For the authority do not strike fear in people who are doing right, but in those who are doing wrong.”
All of this being said, it is me who needs to change in the way that I view some people in authority. Instead of making critical observations, I need to pray for those in authority over me. I need to ask God to guide them in their decisions and pray that they seek God as they make these decisions. I need to pray that I can, by example, show what submitting to authority is supposed to look like.
Prayer: Dear God, Please help me to view those in authority through your eyes, even those who appear to be acting ungodly. Help me to remember that they have been placed in this role by you and that I should respect them no matter what. Thank you. Amen.

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

November 9, 2010, I Peter 1

Key Verse:

"Prepare your minds for action; be self-controlled; set your hope fully on the grace to be given you when Jesus Christ is revealed."

(I Peter 1:13)



Central Truth:

Faithful Christians are assured of an everlasting eternal reward.



OUR WORLDS


Most of us inhabit several "worlds." We live in one world at home, another at work, yet another socially, etc. Even in the first century Peter understood this concept. He makes frequent references to "worlds" and "the eternal," explaining that the way we respond to events in our earthly worlds produces lasting effects for us in the eternal world.


In Peter's letter to Christians, he commends those who love Christ without ever having seen him, for such faith leads to a life filled with glorious joy. He assures believers who endure the demands and disappointments of our earthly lives that they will cultivate invaluable faith as a result of our pain. To Christians suffering persecution and other troubles, Peter promises a magnificent eternal inheritance.


That eternal spiritual world often seems very distant to us. At times, the extreme difficulties of today's world make it almost impossible to live a faith-filled life. Living a life pleasing to God hardly seems worth it. The Bible, though, assures us of two very important things. A life within God is infinitely better than a life without God, and the rewards awaiting those who remain faithful are indescribably grand. These are promises; not things that "might" or "could" happen. Our eternal inheritance is assured.

Monday, November 8, 2010

November 8, 2010, James 5

Key Verse:

This treasure you have accumulated will stand as evidence against you on the day of judgment.
(James 5: 3)

Central Truth:

If worldly treasures are at the top of your important list, you are missing the point. God says they will burn like stubble in hay.


Where's your treasure?


The book of James, although short, is fantastic for teaching principals that Christians should live by. James gives a warning to the rich in chapter 5. "Your wealth has rotted, and moths have eaten your clothes." (James 5:2) I work in commercial real estate, and I see all kinds of real estate developers who have lots of money. It's easy to get caught up in the desire to make lots of money, to have nice things, and to be able to "do whatever you want to do financially." I'll admit, I want to make lots of money and I want to have and be able to do things. Is that wrong? James warns the rich that their money will rot, their silver will corrode. OR DOES HE???


What James proclaims is the worthlessness of riches, not the worthlessness of the rich. The money we have today will mean nothing when Christ comes back; so we should spend our time accumulating those types of riches that will be worth something in Heaven. Money, though, is not the problem. Piedmont needs money (your tithe money) to provide salaries for staff and to do our work effectively as a church. It is the LOVE of money that leads to evil. (1 Timothy 6:10). James uses these few verses to warn Christians who are tempted to adopt worldly standards rather than God's standards.

I believe God wants us to be successful in our jobs. God wants us to make money to tithe and give back to His church. He wants us to be successful and provide for our families, but at the same time, He does not want us to allow money to become more important to us than HIM. Remember He allowed you to make it; He can take it away from you real quick.

What drives your heart? A relationship with Jesus, an awesome church where you worship, a loving family, striving to be a Godly man or woman, . . . or, earthly treasures and things that James tells us will burn ? "For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also." (Matthew 6:21)

Friday, November 5, 2010

November 5, 2010, James 4

Key Verse: 

Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. 

(James 4:7)

Central Truth: 

Because the Holy Spirit lives in us, we have the power to resist the devil.

SHUT THE DOOR, KEEP OUT THE DEVIL

I can still see my friend Elizabeth doing little motions she made up to help us memorize this verse when we were all doing a ladies' Bible study ten years ago. It made me giggle because she would do her fingers in a "walking" motion (think Yellow Pages ads in the 80's) really fast, like running. It was kind of a funny motion for grown ups to be sitting around doing in Bible study, but what really was funny to me, in a different way, was to think about the devil running away from ME! I mean, if I saw the devil incarnate coming towards me, I would certainly run (wouldn't I?), but he will flee from little 'ole ME? Paul says he will.

Let's back up a minute. I said I would run from the devil incarnate. I mean, wouldn't he have big horns, breathing fire, and a really mean snarl? I guess he would. So, I would be scared, and I would RUN! But what if he didn't? What if he wasn't mean and scary? What if he was whispering gossip in my ear? What if he was on a really, really funny TV show that made me laugh even though the language was, shall we say, "coarse"? What if he was a really handsome man, handing out compliments and paying me attention on a really bad day? I mean, I would still run from the devil then, right?

Well, I guess that brings me to the key part of this verse. Paul gives us several instructions in this chapter about how to come near to God, two in this verse. First, submit to God. That means to yield to his authority - let Him be the boss of you. And next, RESIST the devil. Don't follow him! Don't listen to his silky words! So maybe that means we run from him. Maybe we just get up in his face and claim scripture.

Later in James, Paul describes the devil as "a roaring lion looking for someone to devour," and instructs us again to "resist him, standing firm in the faith." (5:9) So, however you gotta do it, just do it! Resist the devil! Maybe you need to move your seat away from that stream of gossip. Or maybe you need to pick up the remote and turn the channel. Or maybe you need to claim scripture you have hidden away in your heart that will help you renew your thoughts and your mind and get back on track. Whatever direction the devil is trying to lure you in, just go the other way!

And what happens next? The devil will flee from YOU! Why? Maybe it's because when we resist him by claiming the power of the Holy Spirit in us, he realizes we are a waste of time and so he moves on to an easier target. But, I think it's because he knows who our Daddy is, and deep down, he is scared of Him. ("...the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world" 1 John 4:4.) For whatever reason, the devil will flee from ME if I resist him. I can just see his little legs running - just like Elizabeth's fingers . . . .

Thursday, November 4, 2010

November 4, James 3

Key Verse:


"The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole person, sets the whole course of his life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell."

(James 3:6)


Central Truth:

Only the power of the Holy Spirit, God himself, is strong enough to tame the tongue.


Whoa . . . After reading this chapter I wanted to just go get a knife and cut out my tongue! I mean seriously . . . this is pretty strong! Not just this little chapter, but pretty much all of James, not to mention the many other statements of how poisonous our tongues are in scripture.

Being a girl, I have to admit this is something I have struggled with as long as I can remember. I will never forget my 2 girl friends in the 4th grade; when all three of us were together we would always somehow team-up, two against one. I guess that is where the term "3 is a crowd" rings true. There was a "file" just for the 3 of us, and during recess we would have to stay inside, sit with the counselor, and discuss how we could be kinder with our words to each other. Ugh . . . I could not stand having to do that. I just wanted to be friends with these girls, and I did whatever I had to in order for them to like me. Sad, but oh so true - even among adults today!

When you really take a look at this verse, and the entire chapter, it mentions that the tongue "corrupts the whole person" and "sets the course of his life on fire." WOW! That is scary. Just to think that the little tongue in your mouth can determine what all of creation thinks of you, where your life will go, and who it will impact.

Years ago, as my walk with Christ really began to take off, I was greatly convicted about this area of my life and how some changes needed to be made. I knew my desire was to grow spiritually, but there were a few things keeping me from progressing to that "next level." The progression went a little like this: (Maybe, you might see yourself in this explanation.)I was friends with a large group that would always talk about other people, and they were pretty critical. I would usually join in and, as sick as it is, would be secretly "happy" when something bad would happen to the person or people we were talking about. This went on for years, and then God began to really convict me about this. After the conviction, I continued to hang-out with this group but would try to not "join in" the conversation. I would just shake my head or smile rather than contribute to the conversation. This plan continued; but, of course, it would fail from time to time. It was not until later that God REALLY began to speak to me about "guilt by association." You see, this verse speaks right to that. Your gossip can corrupt your entire being, and if you are hanging out with those "beings," it really does not matter if you are contributing or not. You will be attached to that kind of behavior no matter how hard you try to not contribute.

As difficult as it is to admit all of this, it is even more difficult to try and control it all by myself. In verse 8 it says, "no man can tame the tongue." Let me say that again, "NO MAN CAN TAME THE TONGUE." It is ONLY through the power of God himself that we can tame our tongues. If it is your desire to use your tongue to encourage and build-up rather than to gossip and tear down, then ask God to give you His power to do so. In my case, God picked me up and completely moved me away from the situation I was in. It was like He said (after I begged for His help), "Here you go my love; here is a do-over."

God has blessed me with amazing friends who really do love and encourage each other with their words. Every time we meet for coffee or lunch, we remind ourselves to make Ephesian 4:29 ("Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only that which is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.") our rule. Memorize that one my friends, it is one you can use forever!! Begin today by asking God to give you the power of the Holy Spirit to tame your tongue. Of course, perfection is difficult to attain, but that is why we have God's grace to cover those areas of imperfection. So, put your knife down, and instead get on your knees. It is a much better solution to taming our tiny little tongues!

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

November 3, 2010, James 2

Key Verse:

What use is it, my brethren, if a man says he has faith, but he has no works? Can that faith save him?

(James 2:14)

WHAT DOES "SAVING" FAITH LOOK LIKE?

James presents a very simple formula for real authentic faith in Jesus Christ . . . Faith = Obedience + Works. James really dials in on the results and by products of faith - a faith that originates with a love "relationship" with God through Jesus Christ.

The relationship with Jesus is the key and motivation for authentic faith. Our love and gratitude for all that God has done for us properly places our motive for obedience and good works. Our good works are initiated by love for God and His love for us and our fellow man. Our deeds no longer become obligatory and burdensome. Even the simple acts of kindness or not participating in gossip conversation yield the blessing of obedience. Again, our motive of pleasing our Savior encourages a life of good works and obedience. A life of living faith!

The following verses communicate God's emphasis of how Faith, Obedience, and Works validate a real and loving relationship He desires with us.

Phil 2:12, 13-So, then my beloved, just as you have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your salvation with fear and trembling; for it is God who is at work in you, both to will and to work for His good pleasure.

1 Cor. 3:13- Each man's work will become evident; for the day will show it, because it is to be revealed with fire; and fire itself will test the quality of each man's work.

1 Timothy 6:18- Instruct them to do good, to be rich in good works, to be generous and ready to share...

Hebrews 11:8- By faith, Abraham, when he was called, obeyed by going out to a place which he was to receive for an inheritance; and he went out, not knowing where he was going.

Ephesians 2:10- For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.

Relationship with Jesus + Works/Obedience = Saving Faith

Want Faith?? Get Jesus and Go To Work!!

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

November 2, 2010, James 1

Key Verses:
“Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.”
(James 1:2-4)
Central Truth:
James 1:2-4 gives us a blueprint to handle our struggles and tough times. It tells us the attitude we should have and how that attitude helps us grow in our faith.
THE BLUEPRINT
As a competitive high school baseball and softball coach, it is unrealistic to think that everything will always be great. Some of my toughest seasons have been State Championship seasons, some of my easiest seasons – ones where we did not win a title.
It is a tough job . . . winning: twenty or so different player personalities, usually double the parent personalities, playing time, strategy, skill development, building the entire program (not just the Varsity), opponents, umpires, fans, budgets, fields, and the list goes on and on. AND I LOVE IT !!!
But man, do things go wrong sometimes !!! “Sometimes” is usually a daily thing. And some lessons are harder than others. Sometimes I feel completely broken.
It wasn’t until Spring of 2007 when I really began my personal Journey with Christ. Going through one of the tougher trials of my career, I began to read the Fellowship of Christian Athletes Coaches Bible that my wife, Cristy, had given me for my birthday (oddly enough the gift occurred just before the “trial” began). I was thumbing through the back of the book looking at the daily devotions. Because this is a coach’s Bible, a lot of it pertains to how to deal with failures and trials.
That’s when I found the verse James 1:2-4. I read it, and my outlook on the trial I was going through began to diminish. I finally started to “get it.” I was put here, in the exact place I am now, and in the exact circumstance I am in now . . . by God. He wants me here, going through what I am going through and doing what He would have me do (even typing these words at this very moment).
And regardless of how good the circumstance or how bad, God is in control of it all. I like to combine James 1:2-4 with Jeremiah 29:11 (“For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future”). So when the trials come, I try to look to these two verses immediately (James 1:2-4 and Jeremiah 29:11). And when “tough times” has to equal “pure joy” (because He says that’s the way it should be), then when I ask “Why me?” I have the answer: Because He has “plans to prosper” me. Because He knows my “future” and wants me to “persevere,” so that I can “mature” in Him.
It is so comforting to know that in the worst of times, He has given us a blueprint for how to handle it all.

Monday, November 1, 2010

November 1, 2010, Hebrews 13

Key Verse:
“Your life should be free from the love of money. Be satisfied with what you have, for He Himself has said, I will never leave you or forsake you.”
(Hebrews 13:5 HCSB)
Central Truth:
Be careful…don’t assume you’re good soil.
ARE YOU COMFORTABLE?
You might want to sit down. Are you comfortable? Alright, let’s begin:
I’m in the middle of reading a book called “Crazy Love” by Francis Chan. To say that this book has been challenging thus far would be a complete understatement. Gut-wrenching.ExcruciatingMind-blowing. These would all be more appropriate terms.
There are so many amazing ideas and thoughts in this book. Let’s take a look at one in particular:
“In the parable of the sower, Jesus explained that the seed is the truth (the Word of God). When the seed is flung onto the path, it is heard but quickly stolen away. When the seed is tossed onto the rocks, no roots take hold; there is an appearance of depth and growth because of the good soil, but it is only surface level. When the seed is spread among thorns, it is received but soon suffocated by life’s worries, riches, and pleasures. But when the seed is sown in good soil, it grows, takes root, and produces fruit.
My caution to you is this: Do not assume you are good soil.
I think most American churchgoers are the soil that chokes the seed because of all the thorns. Thorns are anything that distracts us from God. When we want God and a bunch of other stuff, then that means we have thorns in our soil. A relationship with God simply cannot grow when money, sins, activities, favorite sports teams, addictions, or commitments are piled on top of it.”
Ouch. I think I’ve always assumed that once I became a “Christian” that I was good soil. I mean, I have His Spirit living inside me; so that makes me good soil, right? I try to read my Bible everyday; so that makes me good soil, right? I go to church almost every Sunday and I volunteer in a ministry there; so that makes me good soil, right? I write a check every other week when I get paid (well, actually, my wife does that part) and I give it to the church; so that makes me good soil, right?
Um…not so fast there Speed Racer.
Paul talks here about being free from the love of money. But it’s really about so much more than money. It’s about being free from anything that would choke out our relationship to our Holy God.
Does your job glorify God? Is working there what God wants you to be doing? Is going to every sporting event for every team around enhancing your relationship with Jesus? Is having your child in every activity you can fit in making your time with God flourish? Does having all that money bring you closer in your walk with Jesus? What about the mile long to-do list, the obsession with “Inbox Zero,” or the necessity with having to be up to date on everyone’s latest status on Facebook or Twitter? Are these things allowing you to grow, take root, and produce fruit for the Kingdom of God?
I think a lot of people will tell you that there is nothing wrong with any of these things. And they’re right, technically. Sporting events are fun and even Jesus enjoyed a good party. It’s important for your kids to be involved in activities that will grow their skills and abilities as well. But if any of these things (or anything else for that matter) are getting in the way and choking out your relationship with God, then they’ve got to go. This is something that I am deeply struggling with too. Reading this book and writing this devotion have been extremely convicting for me. I desperately want to be good soil!
Basically what it all boils down to is that all the things that we have, all the money (whether we love it or just tolerate it), all the things that we do and say…they all mean nothing if we don’t pour it all out as an offering to the One who poured out His life for us. If we don’t love the Creator of the Universe with an out-of-this-world kind of love, then we’re just a noisy gong, or a clanging symbol. We’re lukewarm, halfhearted Christians. And, according to Francis, that makes us not really “Christians” at all. We’re just people playing the game, trying to “fake it ‘til we make it.”
Are you still comfortable?